Why do those male “positivity posts” pretend it’s so easy being a female survivor of abuse??
“If this was an old man making lewd comments about a young woman instead of vice versa we’d all know how inappropriate this is”
“If this was a man raping a woman instead of vice versa nobody would be making fun of her”
“If this was a woman being abused nobody would say that she was weak”
Like have any of you ever seen the Real World? Female survivors are treated like SHIT. Why would you pretend that abused women live in some sort of magical world where they are supported by wider society, they are always believed, and their abuser is always brought to justice.
Posts like those don’t exist to help male survivors of abuse, they exist to trick women into thinking that they somehow have it better, even when they have been abused.
…are you saying you male survivors have it easy?
I agree that people shouldn’t bring shit like that up as some kind of weird contest but I got weird vibes from this post
Well that’s on you. At no point did OP imply, much less state, that male survivors “have it easy.” No survivor has it easy.