The truth of this smacks you 100% in the face.
And i betchu there were SOOOOO many responses to this tryna tell em how its “not the same thing” & that its “completely different”….
me around other gays and non-homophobic straight people: actually I think gay marriage is simply a band-aid solution and an empty gesture. Our real focus as a community ought to be homeless and depressed gay youth, especially trans youth.
me around homophobes:

Marriage is not about religion.
Atheist marry.
Marriage is not about procreation.
The infertile marry.
Marriage is not about finances.
It can weave poverty.
Marriage is about love.
That’s it.
And that’s beautiful.
